COCKS & COCKTAILS
Step into a discreet realm of exploration and connection with our exclusive gentlemen’s club.
Cocks & Cocktails is Kansas City's first exclusive gathering for gay men seeking authentic connection, community, and intimate exploration.
We're more than an event - we're a curated community that celebrates both sophisticated social interaction and sexual freedom in one judgment-free space. Join us for our recurring events where sensuality and intimacy collide.
We create what KC has never had - a private gentlemen's club where genuine conversation and physical chemistry don't have to be separate experiences. Our recurring gatherings bring together carefully selected men who understand that real connection happens when all parts of yourself are welcome.
Our events are held in a discreet, private space nestled in downtown Kansas City. We are currently accepting new members for our waitlist. DM us on Instagram to request an invite.
EVENTS
Cocks & Cocktails
DAte & time TBA| KCMO | BYOB
We’ll start the night with a cocktail hour. Everyone will have an opportunity to mingle with all the members and to get a feel for the chemistry of the group.
Once everyone is loosened up, the fun will begin. There’s no bell or specific time the fun needs to begin, all that we ask is that you socialize first before jumping into sex.
From there, you're free to connect however feels natural to you. Whether that's intimate one-on-one encounters, small group experiences, or simply continuing conversations while others explore around you - it's entirely up to your comfort level and desires.
Our space is designed with multiple areas for different types of connection, giving you options to find exactly the right atmosphere for whatever kind of experience you're seeking that evening.
We know that you have a life outside of the group, so we understand you might not be able to make every event each month. However, in order to build the community and chemistry of the group, we ask all members to commit to making as many events as they can.
Still wondering what to expect? See what our members have to say about their Cocks & Cocktails experiences. Click here to read their testimonials.
SECURE YOUR SPOT
This is an INVITE ONLY event. DM us on Instagram to request an invite, but don’t wait too long, space is limited.
MEMBERSHIP
$20/event
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We carefully select our members to ensure alignment with our values of respect, authenticity, and exploration. Quality over quantity, always.
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Our intentionally small events create a personal atmosphere where genuine connections flourish - far beyond the anonymous encounters of typical venues.
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Experience the perfect balance of elegant social interaction and intimate exploration. Think stimulating conversation and cocktails alongside physical connection.
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The same curated group attends our recurring events, allowing trust, chemistry, and meaningful relationships to develop over time.
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Our community guidelines and screening process ensure boundaries are honored and consent is paramount in every interaction.
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We're building lasting relationships and ongoing community, not facilitating one-off hookups. This is where all parts of yourself are welcome.
