What members are saying.

  • “As someone who's always felt caught between the app culture and traditional gay bars, Cocks & Cocktails offers something I didn't know I was missing.”

  • “C&C completely changed my view of what's possible in KC. The mix of great conversation with guys who actually want to connect—plus the freedom to explore without judgment—has given me some of the most real connections I've ever had.”

  • "I've made genuine friendships alongside passionate encounters. It's refreshing to be in a space where both connection and pleasure are celebrated without shame."

  • “It's not just another hookup scene—there's a genuine sense of community that makes even intimate moments feel meaningful.”

  • “I've made genuine friendships alongside passionate encounters. It's refreshing to be in a space where both connection and pleasure are celebrated without shame.”

  • “I was skeptical about the concept at first, but after attending my first event, I understand why the curation process matters. The caliber of men and the intentional approach to creating connections transforms what could be just another sex party into something much more meaningful. Worth every penny of the membership fee.”